For you, kids, this spring is doomed to stiff, just because it is a spring before the entrance examination for college. Now, you are in deep suspense, insomnia, headache, unable to focus attention and idol presents frequently. Therefore, you are self-contempt, pessimism, and even despair. Kids, there are three sentences I want to tell you. It may do some help.  

Life is impartial 

 Kids, what everyone can see is the superficies of life. What we can’t see is the inner-heart of other’s.

 You complaint the life is partial and you said everyone looks well except you, you are bearing the torment which comes from the bottom of the heart. Kid, don’t think it like this. Life treats everyone impartially ,what I mean is facing the limited time before college entrance examination, no one will live without stress, tensity and bad mood, however, all this may not be tell just from their calm superficies .

  Like right now, if you don’t come to ask me for help , I won’t know you are in a bad mood just judge from your appearance.   

 It was just yesterday that one student came to me who faced the same problem.   If I don’t tell you, you will never know he is also suffering the same pain. Then, you said all your classmates look calm except you ,actually it just on the contrary，what the difference is that you speak it out.

 Seems everyone is the same, why do you still worry? Face it with a usual mind and look forward, you will carry them out through this difficult time                           

Make friends with the bad mood.

 Kids, remember, if there is an invisible evil come to your heart and disturb you, and make you feel in suspense, fidget , you should learn to make friends with him.

 Don’t try to make a contest and fall out with him, otherwise, you will be the only one who gets hurt. Face him friendly, make handshakes, smile, and open your mind to him.

 Overall, get along well with him. In fact, the one who really came to your heart is not the evil but your friend from the bottom of your heart. It is just coincidences that happen during one period of your life.

 It may make troubles everyday which add more pains into your heart. However, if you care it too much, it will in turn break out more. Thus, don’t try to defeat it, just pay no attention to it, and you will found that when you do so, you have already won yourself.

Everything will pass

         Kids, the process of one’s growing up will always experience rains and winds. Those experiences are one part of growing and maturing.   In this sense, what you are experience now is what you need in the future of your life. 

I have a student who lived in a poor family, while he studied in school, he finished his college studies under people’s help. Unfortunately, after he got married, his child caught a terrible disease. With his child, he and his wife run all over china to find doctors, but it is in vain. Few years later, they use up all the money and their debts were increasing. When I went to visit him, he smiled and said: don’t worry, I am the one who had already experienced the hardship, I won’t afraid anything! Having the tears covered my face, I hold on his face at that moment.

   It is true that the one who step out from the hardship won’t afraid anything. Difficulty can’t defeat him, pains can’t tear him down. This kind of people will live more firmly and strongly. Difficulty for him is not only a torture but also a temper, a torment, and also a new start. 

 Children, you should declare to the life loudly: just let those pains come as much as they like! You should learn to meet the difficulties and go forward through the raging fire, and then steel yourself and become a all-conquering person.

  Everything will pass. That’s right, however hard and difficult it is, it will pass ultimately.

  Only go thought the difficulty that will you live a real life, and become a man of indomitable spirit.