Many people admit that they are living “a miserable life”, that they are doing something they are not desired to do and what they earn is far lower than what their capabilities are worth. They are unwilling to keep the relationship with the people they don’t like, anyway, they feel nothing satified in their lives. Most people think they are swallowed by the things which are going to happen, feel helpless to them and have no power to improve them. So the life goes everyday the same: get up, go to work, come back, have dinner, watch tv and at last go to bed. “Helpless”, this is one of the reason stopping people from changing,; the other one is “easy to satisfy. People always have this or that habit, once they start a kind of activity, they are soon t o be satisfied. Then they are reluctant to change their prsent living environment. What is more, they are afraid of change without any reason ,even though they are not satisfied with the present things. Helpless, together with easy to satisfy, makes people feel hopeless and powerless to improve their lives. Under such mental situation, people are striving to seek for a sense of safety, but not the opportunity.

The way to solve is to so some positive study. With the increasement of your knowledge and skills, you will be willing to take some actions for the change. The more you learn, the more courage you will have to try, and also more confident. Never find excuses for yourself.

Success comes from inside and also is a kind of mental situation. It happens in your heart, and reflect in your outside world. If you change your thinking towards the good direction, you will become a better person. Write down your aims and try to make them come true one by one, and then you completely control your life in your hand.