Nowadays, a lot of people are seeking for the so-called happy life, complaining to those around about their unability to create happiness. They have been cherishing an unrealistic dream, some even pursuing happiness in their lifetime but failing to know it is just all around.

Bernard Shaw, a winner of Nobel Prize in Literature, has said, "Just at this moment on the earth, there are about 20,000 people suitable for you to marry, and it makes difference which one you meet first. If with the first one you have developed an intimate relationship of knowing, caring, trusting each other before the second one shows up, then the latter will become your good friend. But if you haven't developed a deep relationship with the former, it is easy for you to shake and change heart. Happiness won't start and vagrancy won't end until you have a stable relationship with one candidate of these ideal mates."

It doesn’t take efforts to fall in love with a person, but it takes opportunities, which is the arrangement of God. However, if you want to love a person for ever, you need to make efforts. In the process of managing love, it is communication, consideration, forgiveness and self-discipline (the self-restraint that when faced with temptation) that makes up the elements of everlasting love. Many people are confused and obsessed with opportunities, constant desire and pursuit, ignoring that the key to happiness is the ability to cultivate and manage feelings.

What fate means is -- among so many people in the world, there is only one who accompanies you home late on a rainly night.

A happy person is good at forgetting what he has given others but keeps in mind what others have given him.

Managing happiness is better than seeking it. Cherish everything that you have owned, for something is never found again once lost. Happiness is just all around.