你发现自己不再盲目地喜欢和一群人混在一起，开始尊重自己的意愿做自己需要做的事，开始安排自己的种种计划，规划自己的方向，独处也就变得充满意义。
- 当你面对很多选择时，不再犹豫不定，脑中会很快地闪过三个以上选择某种选项的必要原因。有了自己独立的思想，开始学着镇定理性地思考问题。
- 当你开始觉得时间明显地不够用，渐渐觉得睡懒觉、逛街等是相当浪费时间和金钱的事情，学会了合理安排时间。
- 当你在上网或阅读时，会把侧重点从一味的关注娱乐杂谈转移到新闻国事。
- 当你在饮食习惯上越来越重视食物的质量，养生之道的念头闯入脑海，学着坚持吃早餐，每天坚持锻炼身体。
- 当你再次被人问到爱情、友情、亲情三者的分量时，首先想到的会是家中的父母。
- 当你再遇到不顺心的事情时，不再是用哭闹来解决问题，明白到能改变现状的只有行动。
- 当你开始重视自己的朋友、爱人，并且会真诚相待。
- 当你开始学会让自己快乐，让周围的人快乐，绝对比拥有金钱有价值。
- 当你在面对得与失、去与留的问题上，大度与开怀地让复杂的事情变得简单，简单的事情变得富有意义。
- 当你任何时候都不与老人与小孩子计较。
- 当你学会尊重每个人。
- 当你拥有健全平和的心态，正确地树立前进的目标，让生活不在沉重的氛围里度过，不会把自己搞得太累。
- 当你自信地生活，不以物喜，不以己悲，并淡忘仇恨。
你开始慢慢发现，自己已经长大。
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译文:
the Trace of Growth
When you find you don' t like to stay with a group blindly any longer ,begining to respect your own will to do what you need ,arranging all kinds of your plans and making your orientation,staying alone turns to make sense.
- You become determined with over 3 necessary reasons striking your mind quickly for your choice when you have to make a decision among many .You have your independent thought and begin to think about problems calmly and rationally.
- When you begin to consider sleeping late and going window-shopping as a waste of time for the lack of time,you learn how to arrange your time reasonably.
- When you are online or reading,you will pay the main attention to the News and national events not to the entertainment or tittle-tattle only.
- When you learn to keep having breakfast and exercising every day, attaching importance to the quality of the food at terms of the eating habit with the way to keep in good health in your mind.
- When you are asked which one weighs most among love,friendship and family love again, your parents will come into your mind first.
- When you meet unsatisfactory things once again,you don't use cry and scream to solve the problem any more but only action that you think can change the situation.
- When you begin to put your friends and lover in a great position of your heart,treating them honestly.
- When you begin to have learnt how to make others and yourself happy which is more valuable than much money.
- On the aspect of gains and losses,going and leaving,you are magnanimous and joyful to simplify the complicated matter and make the simple one more meaningful .
- When you don't argue with the young an old anytime.
- When you learn how to respect everybody.
- When you own healthy placid state of mind,set your gaol correctly,make your life relaxing and let yourself be bearable.
- When you live confidently without being happy or sad because of the objective things and let hatred fade from your memory.
You start to discover slowly that you have grown up.
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