原文: 爱是要在一起

他和她非常相爱，可女孩的父母坚决不同意他们两人在一起，他们认为一个外来工连自己都照顾不了，又何以能够给自己女儿幸福，于是千方百计拆散他们。

女孩很倔强，下定决心要和心爱的人长相厮守。男孩也很有骨气，一心想靠自己的努力去闯荡南方，成就一番事业，让她的父母对他刮目相看。

女孩不想别离，哭着说，她想和他一起去。他坚决不肯，男人除了爱情，还有梦想和责任，更何况陌生的异乡连自己的温饱都无法保证，又怎能让心爱的人和他一起受苦呢？他一定要干出名堂来，然后风风光光迎娶她。

女孩哭着把他送上了南下的列车，从此两地相思。他经常打电话来，诉说着自己的工作和梦想，她也很激动，好想和他一起打拼异乡，而他一次又一次拒绝了她，说他的事业才刚刚起步，还很艰苦。她沉默着，眼泪一次一次地流下来。

就这样过了三年。终于，他在南方打拼出一片自己的天地，衣锦还乡。

回到那座爱情的城市，朝思暮想的人儿终于肩面了！一阵激动之后，无数的话语竟然无从开口，两人静默相对，心里忽然莫名地心痛。

三年没见，光阴的变迁使两人变得非常陌生，那种陌生让人伤感，他们之间所有的回忆都在三年之前，虽然在这三年里他们都思念着对方，可他们已不了解对方的思想和生活，岁月的痕迹让爱情陌生起来。

她告诉他，其实你并不懂得爱情。相爱的两个人最重要的是在一起，无论甘苦都要在一起，他一次次拒绝，一次次伤着她的心。她说已经遇到一个对她非常好的男孩子，已经准备结婚了。

除了祝福，他没有别的话可说，他失去了刻骨铭心的初恋。

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打完这篇文章，我发现自己已经泪流满面，世间有几个男人懂得这个道理？又有多少相爱的人因为聚少离多而变得陌生，又有多少情人因为别离忙碌而心痛分手？我要面临又是什么呢？人海茫茫，泪眼婆娑，仍望不到自己的恋人！！！

译文: Lover shall stay together

He and she loved each other very much, but her parents stoutly disagreed, they thought that an immigrated person cannot give their daughter happiness when he have no ability to take care of himself, so the parents tried to break them up.

She was intractable so that she made her mind to stay together for a lifetime. The boy was backboned and he would like to make a successful living in the south place by his own efforts in order to make her parents see in a better light.

She was unwillingly to part, saying with crying that she wanted to go with him. He disagreed for he thought that a man shall have dream and responsibility superior to love, especially when he cannot ensure his own living in the strange city, how a man bear his lover suffering with him? He decided that he must make some accomplishment and then marry her grandly.

She sent him to the southern train with tears, and then they suffered from lovesickness. He always called to say his work and dream, and she was very excited and wanted to work with him, but he refused her again and again by saying his career was still hard at the beginning stage. She kept silent with tears.

Three years passed. Finally, he obtained his own business space, and then returned to the city after getting fame and money.

Returned to the city with love, he could meet his girl yearned day and night! After a spasm of excitement, they did not know what to talk only looking at each other silently with unintelligible heartburn.

Three years no see, time made them strange, and the strange made them sick at heart, for all their memory was happened three years before, they missed each other during the three years, but they had no idea about the lover’s thought and live. The time makes love strange.

She told him, “You know nothing about love”. The most important is to stay together for lover, no matter sweetness and bitterness. When he refused her again and again, her heart got hurt. She said that she has met a boy treating her very well, and she has got ready for marrying.

Besides best regards, he has nothing to say, for he has lost his significant first love.

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