我们都希望自己的另一半，温柔，体贴。可是，真的没有哪个男人，生下来就懂得怎么照顾女人的。多半的好男人，都是女人调教出来的。 所以，当我们拥有一个好男人的同时，就应该知道，我们所享受的，是前一个女孩的成果。

　　第一个初恋吗？

　　他什么也不懂，他追你的时候写了几封情书，他害怕去买花，不敢在你的宿舍楼下叫你，第一次牵你手的时候考虑了两天，犹豫了半个小时。第一次说爱你的时候脸涨的通红，身体都在发颤。第一次吻你的时候，害怕冲撞了你，先问问你同不同意。你们在一起的时候不知道该干什么，他只会望着你傻笑。你问他最爱的人是谁，他不会撒谎，说是他妈妈。你问他将来会不会娶你，他呆了一呆，说没想过这个问题。

　　第二个女朋友吗?

　　他送你花，请你宿舍人吃饭。他说我爱你，然后牵着你的手跑到学校的喷泉中央，然后抱起你打转，他追到你了。你答应他的那一刻，他就吻住了你。他说女朋友应该要给男友洗衣服，要在他打球的时候送水擦汗。你问他最爱的人是谁，他考虑了一下，说，是你。你问，我们会不会有未来？他说，你愿不愿意去我的家乡？偶尔，他会想起他的初恋，他说，那个时候我太小，什么也不懂。

　　第三个女朋友吗？

　　他说，虽然我什么也没有，但是我有一颗爱你的心。相信我，我们会很幸福的。于是你们在陌生的城市为了节省房租，同住了一间小屋子，有简陋的卫生间和厨房。每天早上你比他早起，偶尔会给他做早餐，分开坐车去上班，晚上，你在回来的路上买好菜，回去做给他吃。他说，有了你，我是最幸福的。他偶尔洗洗碗，偶尔擦擦地，偶尔洗洗衣。一起省吃俭用还读书时候欠在信用卡里的帐。他说，等我们攒够了钱，我们就结婚。他妈妈过来，给你们洗了床单和被套，说，屋里要保持整洁，住着才舒服。你跟他回他的老家，他说，我爸爸觉得你没有我第一个女朋友漂亮。

　　第四个女朋友吗？

　　他说，我觉得我们会谈得来。那天晚上他送你回家就留下来过了夜。他很会照顾人，很会疼人，他永远懂得女人需要什么，想听什么，喜欢什么。你还没有要求，他就给你惊喜了。他会给你买零食，会给你做宵夜，你看一样东西超过三眼，第二天他就会买给你。他买了房子写上了你的名字。他妈妈看到你的时候说，闺女，都不小了，结婚吧！你觉得自己很幸福，接受了他的钻戒。有一天，你翻他的电脑，看到了他写给前女友的信，说了你们的故事，然后说:这些都是我最想为你做的，可是我以前不懂也没有条件。

　　相信回忆是美好的，也要知道，你们的明天会是更美好的。

　　我们都希望自己的另一半，温柔，体贴。可是，真的没有哪个男人，生下来就懂得怎么照顾女人的。多半的好男人，都是女人调教出来的。 所以，当我们拥有一个好男人的同时，就应该知道，我们所享受的，是前一个女孩的成果。

　　或许，每个男人心里，都会有一个念念不忘的人，这时候，不要去嫉妒，也不要试着破坏，因为，每个人的一生中，是应该有那么一次美好的。就像我们，或许也被另一个男人怀念一样。

　　容许你的男人，心里有一个影子，但是仅仅局限于影子而已。没必要担心这个影子是否会影响你的现在。相信回忆是美好的，也要知道，你们的明天会是更美好的。相信一个真正爱你的男人是不会让自己最爱的你哭泣，流一滴泪的。

　　又有几个女孩懂得呢？

女人必知25个养颜排毒美容锦囊(图)  

男人比女人更易得的六种病 (图)

女性的14种腰痛 你有几种？(图)

改善视力下降的最佳食物 (图)

哪七种危险食物食用时要慎重？

上班族为何星期三心情最低落？

吃了最容易发胖的五大食物 (图)

便宜美味女人最佳护肤食物 (图)

牙痛也有速效止痛窍门 (图)

女人的十大天然美肤水果 (图)

史上最懒最舒服的减肥招 (图)

We all hope that our future husband to be gentle and considerate.But in fact, few men are born to be throughtful and considerate and know how to look after their wives. Most of the good man are guided and trained by women. So when we have a good man, we should know that what we are enjoying at the moment is the fruit of his ex-girlfriend.

To be his first love?

He knew nothing, and he wrote several love letters when he was chasing after you.He even didn’t dare to buy a flower for you and call your name out of your dormitory building. He thought for two days and hesitated for half an hour when he first held your hand in his. When he said “I love you”for the first time, his face suddenly blushed and his body was trembling. When he first kissed you, he was afraid that his behavior would offend you, so he asked whether you agreed or not.　When you two were together, he even didn’t know what to do, he always looked at your eyes and smiled naively. You asked him who he loves most and he didn’t tell lies and would tell you who he loves most is his mother.You asked him whether he was going to marry you, he thought for a while and replied he hadn’t even thought about it.

To be his second love?

He would buy flowers for you and invite your roommates out for dinner. He would say I love you and hold your hand in his and run to the centre of the campus fountain,then he would encircle you in his arms and finally he won your love.The moment you agreed to be his girlfriend, he kissed you. He would say that girlfriend should wash clothes for her boyfriend, send water and wipe the sweat when he is playing basketball.When you asked him who he loves most, he would thought for a while and say that is you. You asked whether you two have future,and he asked you whether you want to go to his hometown with him? Once in a while, he would think about his first love and he also said that at that time he was too young and he even didn’t know what is love.

To be his third love?

He said ‘though I have nothing, I have a heart that only belongs to you. Believe me and we will be happy.Then in order to save money in an unfamiliar city you two lived in a small room with simple and crude toilet and kitchen. Everymorning you got up earlier than him and occasionally you made breakfast for him. Then you two take different buses to work. In the evening, you bought vegetables on your way home and made supper for him. He said he was the happiest one in the world just because of having you. Occasionally he would wash the dish, clean the floor and wash clothes.You had to live a frugal life in order to pay off the debt in your credit card that owed when you were at school. He said when we have saved enough money,we would get married. His mother came and washed the sheet for you and said only when the room is clean, can you live comfortably. You went home with him back to his hometown. He said ‘my father said that you are not as beautiful as my ex-girlfriend.’

To be his fourth love?

He said ‘we can get along well with each other.’The evening he sent you home he didn’t leave and stayed for a night. He knew how to look after you and love you.He always knew what women need, what women what to listen and what women like. He would give you a pleasant surprise before you demand for something.He would buy snacks and make night snacks for you. If you look at something for three times, he would buy it for you the next day. He bought a house and wrote your name on the building property title certificate. His mother met you and said, good girl,you are not young now,you should get married. You thought you were happy and accepted his diamond ring. One day, you searched his computer and saw a letter he wrote to his ex-girlfriend. In the letter he told your story and at last he wrote ‘I meant to do all these things for you, but I didn’t  have the right condition and didn’t know that I should do this. Good memory is always sweet,but you must believe that you two will have a bright future.

We all hope that our future husband to be gentle and considerate.But in fact, few men are born to be throughtful and considerate and know how to look after their wives. Most of the good man are guided and trained by women. So when we have a good man, we should know that what we are enjoying at the moment is the fruit of his ex-girlfriend.

Perhaps, in every man’s heart, there is a woman he can never forget for a moment. At this time, don’t be jealous and don’t try to destroy it. Because in everyone’s life, there is a sweet experience. Just like us, maybe we are always remembered by someone.

Allow your man to have a shadow in his heart,but only a shadow. You don’t need to worry that this shadow would disturb your life.You believe that a good memory is always sweet,but you must also believe that you two will have a much brighter future. Please believe that a man who really loves you will not let you cry and even shed a drop of tear.

But I don’t know how many girls understand this?