三句话，给进入高考倒计时的你
文/马德
《青年文摘·彩版》2009年第4期“青春纪”
孩子，高考前的这个春天，对你来说，注定是一个伤筋动骨的春天。此刻，你正处在深深的焦虑之中，失眠、头痛、无法集中注意力、幻象频现。为此，你自卑、落泪、悲观，甚至绝望。孩子，我有三句话，想说与你听，也许，会对你有一些帮助。
生活是公平的
孩子，每个人看到的，都是生活的表象。我们永远无法深入的，是他人的内心。
你抱怨生活不公平。你说，大家都好好的，唯有你，受着心底的煎熬和折磨。孩子，请你不要这样。生活对谁都是一样的，我是说，在距高考有限的时日里，谁都会有压力，谁都会紧张，谁都会情绪不好，只是，这一切，从平静的表象上是看不出来的。
就像现在，你来找我，我才知道你的心情并不好。而在这之前，我从你的脸上是读不出这些的。
就在昨天，也有一个同学来找我谈心，也是因为同样的问题。如果我不告诉你，你能知道他也正在痛苦中挣扎吗?所以，你说，(班里的)同学们都学得很静，唯有你躁动着静不下心来。实际情况呢，大家的
内心都在翻江倒海，都在经历着煎熬和挣扎，只不过，你勇于向我说出来了吧。
既然大家都这样，你也就没必要太在意它，以一颗平常心对待这一切，放眼前方，你就会顺利地度过这一段艰难的日子的。
和恶劣情绪交朋友
孩子，如果有一个无形的恶魔进驻到你心里，搅扰着你，让你心神不宁、坐卧不安。记住，你要学会和它交朋友。
你不要和它较劲，更不要跟它翻脸，否则的话，受伤害的只会是你自己。你要和颜悦色地对待它，与它握手，对它微笑，同它交心，总之，你要友好地和它相处。事实上，进驻到你内心的，并不是真正的恶魔，它原本是你心底的朋友。只不过，它在人生的这一段，鬼使神差一般走到了你人生的背面，幻化出了一副恶魔的嘴脸。
它也许还会每天捣乱，在你本已纷乱如麻的心里绾上一个痛苦的结。如果，你和它急，这一个结就会变成无数个结，让你永远也解不完。所以，你不要想着去赢它，你要学会心平气和地面对它，你会发现，你在无心赢它的时候，不知不觉中，你却赢了自己。
一切都会过去
孩子，一个人在长大的过程中，总是要经历些风雨的。而经历风雨的过程，就是长大的过程，就是一个人成熟的过程。从这个意义上讲，现在你所经历的，恰恰正是你的人生所必需的。
我有一个学生，上学的时候，家境不好，在别人的帮助下才勉强读完大学。不幸的是，成家立业后，他的孩子患上了一种缠人的疾病。他和妻子背着孩子几乎跑遍了全国各地，孩子的病情也没有丝毫好转。几年下来，家徒四壁，债台高筑。我去看望他，他笑着说，老师，我没事，我是从困难中走过来的人，我什么也不怕！
那一刻，我握着他的手，泪流满面。
是的，真正从人生的困境中走出来的人，是无所畏惧的。困难吓不倒他，苦痛摧不垮他，这样的人，只会活得更加坚定，也更加坚强。因为，困难于他，是一种煎熬，也是一次历练；是一场折磨，更是一次浴火重生。
孩子，你要敢于大声地向生活宣告：让痛苦来得更猛烈些吧!你要学会迎着风雨而上，你要学会蹈着烈火前进，然后，磨砺自己，成为一个强大到无坚不摧的人。
一切都会过去。是的，无论多难的苦，多苦的难，都会过去。
而从这困难中走过来，你才算真正活过，才算真正长大，最终，才算一个顶天立地的人。
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译文:
Three sentences to students who prepare the countdown entrance examination for college
For you, kids, this spring is doomed to stiff, just because it is a spring before the entrance examination for college. Now, you are in deep suspense, insomnia, headache, unable to focus attention and idol presents frequently. Therefore, you are self-contempt, pessimism, and even despair. Kids, there are three sentences I want to tell you. It may do some help. Life is impartial
Kids, what everyone can see is the superficies of life. What we can’t see is the inner-heart of other’s.
You complaint the life is partial and you said everyone looks well except you, you are bearing the torment which comes from the bottom of the heart. Kid, don’t think it like this. Life treats everyone impartially ,what I mean is facing the limited time before college entrance examination, no one will live without stress, tensity and bad mood, however, all this may not be tell just from their calm superficies .
Like right now, if you don’t come to ask me for help , I won’t know you are in a bad mood just judge from your appearance.
It was just yesterday that one student came to me who faced the same problem. If I don’t tell you, you will never know he is also suffering the same pain. Then, you said all your classmates look calm except you ,actually it just on the contrary，what the difference is that you speak it out.
Seems everyone is the same, why do you still worry? Face it with a usual mind and look forward, you will carry them out through this difficult time
Make friends with the bad mood.
Kids, remember, if there is an invisible evil come to your heart and disturb you, and make you feel in suspense, fidget , you should learn to make friends with him.
Don’t try to make a contest and fall out with him, otherwise, you will be the only one who gets hurt. Face him friendly, make handshakes, smile, and open your mind to him.
Overall, get along well with him. In fact, the one who really came to your heart is not the evil but your friend from the bottom of your heart. It is just coincidences that happen during one period of your life.
It may make troubles everyday which add more pains into your heart. However, if you care it too much, it will in turn break out more. Thus, don’t try to defeat it, just pay no attention to it, and you will found that when you do so, you have already won yourself.
Everything will pass
Kids, the process of one’s growing up will always experience rains and winds. Those experiences are one part of growing and maturing. In this sense, what you are experience now is what you need in the future of your life.
I have a student who lived in a poor family, while he studied in school, he finished his college studies under people’s help. Unfortunately, after he got married, his child caught a terrible disease. With his child, he and his wife run all over china to find doctors, but it is in vain. Few years later, they use up all the money and their debts were increasing. When I went to visit him, he smiled and said: don’t worry, I am the one who had already experienced the hardship, I won’t afraid anything! Having the tears covered my face, I hold on his face at that moment.
It is true that the one who step out from the hardship won’t afraid anything. Difficulty can’t defeat him, pains can’t tear him down. This kind of people will live more firmly and strongly. Difficulty for him is not only a torture but also a temper, a torment, and also a new start.
Children, you should declare to the life loudly: just let those pains come as much as they like! You should learn to meet the difficulties and go forward through the raging fire, and then steel yourself and become a all-conquering person.
Everything will pass. That’s right, however hard and difficult it is, it will pass ultimately.
Only go thought the difficulty that will you live a real life, and become a man of indomitable spirit.