Many people know to care for others and to be thankful, the importance is the result of the education from father. The general manager Aoersen of American digital equipment company always mentions his father when he talks about his secusess.because the behavior of his father has affected his life. Aosiwaerde ,Aoersen’s father,is an engineer without university degree,but he has several patents, then he became a salesman. Once a customer wanted to buy the machine that he saled, but he found the customer didn’t really need that machine, then he persuaded him not to buy it painstakingly. His boss was extremly angry for this thing, but Aoersen has got a good name.
Da·fenqi went to school when he was six year-old.,he learned a lot of knowledge in school, but his most interesting thing is drawing. One day, he didn’t pay attention to his teacher and drew a sketch for teacher. After he backed home, Da·fenqi showed this sketch to his father, not only his father didn’t get angry but also praised him, and his father dicided to train his talent about drawing .since then , there is a wizard in drawing in the world.
There is a friend talkes about his experience of his final fatherly love. His fathe is a disable solider, he dearly cared my sister and I. The time before my father passed away, the old man abruptly became unreasonal with,. It’s not to scold me impious but to say my sister is not good. This is just like we owe him a lot. We have thought of this distress and then we knew: in fact his mind is clear. He loves life, love kids, his heart has grown attched to the world and reletives.when he knew he couldn’t still alive in the world. All he thought is to decrease distress for kids cause of losing relative before he leave away. So he used the way to toment us on purpose that make us numb and accompany him finish his final life flatly and securely------ Recall about my old father lied on the sickbed and his face consumed, he was hiding his distress in heart to show his final special fathely love for kids in a aginst his will way. my friend’s eyes turns red.
There is a proverb in Jewish people:” the son smiled when his father gave something to his son; on the contrast, the father cried when the son gave something to his father.”there is a story: five past 40, I went out, it was very cold in the outside, it was snowing outside, it’s white evrywhere. I stamped my foot endlessly on the stop. It’s very dark around,there are two hoary-headed old people. I heard the old man talked to old woman,”youyour, we didn’t sleep well the whole evening, you started to wake me up for hours, we wait here for long.” Yes, the first shift will come in 5 minites. The bus is coming, the driver is the yong guy, he drove the bus upon I got on the bus.I said:driver, there are still two old people outside, it’s so cold, they wait for a long time,why don’t you wait them ?” he spirited vigorous said:” they are my parents, this is my first day for my job, they come to see me.”
There is a life passage story as well: it’s the heavy snow nigh, his wife slowin coming, she turned from side to side in the whole night and couldn’t bear out,the next morning , her husband wanted to find a midwife in the neibor of his villege, but it snowed heavily, the snow on the ground amostly deep with knee, it’s seven or eight mile from his house to midwife’s house, and the midwife is old, she couldn’t go to his home. With the sound of more and more goraned with pain of his wife,her husband suddenly taken a shovel go to outside of house, he shoveled snow one by one to the midwife’s house, this is almost a kind of vain done. At last her hasband make half way to midwife’s house toward evening,. Husband worried abouth wife’s security, he came back home, and tell her must to keep up.you must keep up, believe me, I must finish shoveling before next morning, husband continued to shovel snow in the evening ,the next day just drawing , the husband blooded at the mouth, and lied in front of the door of midwife’s house. Finally he shveled out a life passage for his wife and his kid. Grandmother said:” that young couple is your grandfather and I”.