Troublesome Businesses of Life

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原文: 人生的麻烦事

人生麻烦事

有些事情是我们不喜欢但是不能不面对的,当然还有一些事情我们因为不喜欢而尽量去避免的。我不怕吃苦,不怕用脑,不怕八卦,不怕因为参与社会活动而难以避免的面对三教九流。但在生活中,下面这八事还是属于我认为的麻烦事。

1. 装修:装修基本上不能给你好的感受,我的每一次装修都没有好的感受,因为基本上这是一件不管你如何努力也无法控制好的事情,而且不管装修者给你说了啥都难以当真的事。

2. 看病:很多人告诉你认识大夫在这个时代非常重要。总的来说,我还不知道看病与忍受病哪个好处更大,就是认识的大夫朋友也不能保证他给拉的那一刀是符合质量的。

3. 打官司:即使我是学习法律的并在政法部门工作过,我也觉得打官司的平均成本总比不打高,忍受不受信用的商业伙伴与忍受律师与法官的交道之间很难说哪个更让自己难受。

4. 杀蟑螂:它们的生命力显然比人类顽强,而且总是在自我更新与升级换代,人类从来没机会战胜蟑螂。杀蟑螂的经验感受,足以和我在农家扑杀生生不绝的苍蝇有得一拼。

5. 帮朋友的孩子找工作:我自己的工作都是自己找的,所以我不知道怎么帮人家找工作,而且还是朋友的孩子、还是在我看来没有啥特长的孩子、如果我是老板我基本不会用的孩子。何况我一贯相信,即使基本条件不错,如果不是自己找工作的青年人本来就不该用。

6. 写学术论文:我曾经写过一些学术论文,但我越来越反感那些写得似懂非懂的学术论文,尤其是还要一些“学术专家”评审才可以而评审修改后更加让人难懂的学术论文。

7.  走后门:无论送礼还是请客,我对于拜托别人走后门帮忙实在觉得为难,而且我一向反感后门,自己也不走后门,但还是会有亲友拜托走后门。

8.  给亲友调解家务纠纷:一般亲人以情化事,陌生人以理定事,但是有些亲友纠纷“公说公有理、婆说婆有理”,彼此又不能相让三分。你说给张三理李四不爽,你肯定了李四张三翻脸,一碗水要能端平话事的人要比闹事的人还累。

我想,每个人都有自己的人生麻烦事,这些麻烦事要以是我们最不擅长的,要么是我们最不喜欢做的,要么是生活的顽症,它常常在我们的人生道路上让我们手足无措。

译文: Troublesome Businesses of Life

人生麻烦事

There are some we have to deal with ,even though we don't like them.Of course ,there are also some we try our best to avoid because of dislike.I'm not afraid of hardship,cerebrating,gossip and people of all walks of life that are hard to avoid meeting in social activities.However,the eight things below are troublesome businesses  which I think they are in the life.

1. Decoration:Decoration basically  can't give you a nice experience and none does so for me   because  you cannot get well controlled of it on the whole even though you have tried your best  and it is also difficult to realise what the decorator has promised to you.

2. Seeing a doctor:You have been  told by many people that it is rather important to know a doctor nowadays.In general, I can't telll which one does better for our health,seeing a doctor or bearing the illness.Even the doctor you get acquainted with can't guarantee his operation on you is safe.

3.Litigation:I think the average cost of litigaton is always higher than the one without litigation  ,even though I am a law-learner and once worked in the Politics and Law Department. It's hard to say that standing the business partner of incredibility makes you suffer more pain than standing the contact with the lawyer and judge.

4. Killing the cockroach:They are obviously tenacious than humans and always updating and upgrading.There is no chance for humans to triumph over them.My experience of killing them is almost the same as that  of killing the never-ending flies in farming families .

5. Helping friends' kids find jobs:My job is found all by myself ,so I have no idea to help others find a job,especially my friends' kids whom I consider to be with no expertise and I won't employ if I were the boss.What's more ,I insist that the youth even with good fundamental condition shouldn't be employed if he doesn't look for the job on his own.

6. Writing the acadmic thesis:I have once written some acadmic theses  with a hazy notion which arise more and more dislike in my mind.In addition,they must go through the review of "acadmic experts" and the modification after the review is more difficult to understand. 

7.  Back-door dealing:I feel ashamed at the back-door dealing by either sending gifts or giving a feast.Additionally,I hate back-door dealing and never do such a thing  but I 'm pushed to involve in it by my relatives and friends.

8.  Mediating the household dispute among my relatives or friends:In general , the problem among the kin is solved by affection while the one among strangers is solved by truth. However,the friends or relatives can't give in on the dispute and persist in his own reason . If you say A is right,B must be unsatisfied with you and vice versa.If you have to balance it ,you must be more tired than  the troublemakers.

I think ,we all have our own trouble in the life which is the one that we are worst at or dislike most or the persistent ailment of life.It often makes us be at loss in the way of life.