我们每个人都有自己的梦想,“如果你不会失败,你最大的梦想是什么?”你要从目前的状况中超越出来,设想一下你理想的生活方式,工作和收入;设想你希望在哪里工作,怎样度过每一天,每一周,每个月;设想你理想的家庭生活。拿出一张纸,列出你梦想得到的一切,这就是你的梦想清单。“你构建了你的空中楼阁了吗?好,现在就行动起来,开始搭建地基”,一旦你从受束缚的思维中摆脱出来,你就可以通过具体的行动计划把梦想变成具体的切实可行的目标。设定目标,有计划地付诸行动是获得成功的首要技能。
怎样实现目标?实现目标有七个步骤:
第一步:确定你真正想要的是什么?真正的目标是清晰的,具体的,可行的,有时间限制的。
第二步:写下你的目标。大脑和手之间存在着神奇的差别,当你写下你的目标时,会增强你的决心和毅力,集中你的信念,你的生活一定会发生神奇的变化。
第三步:愿意付出代价。确定为了实现目标你会付出什么样的代价。你是不是该每天都早一点开始工作,工作得更努力些,回来得更晚些?你是不是应该更新一下你的知识和技能,多参加一些培训课程?你是不是要换份工作或者调整自己的事业?因果法则是世间的普遍真理。要想得到任何东西都要付出一定的代价。要愿意为所需去争取,付出代价,无论路途多远也要前行。没有全力以赴,最终将无法实现目标。
第四步:写出详细计划。按照重要程度,给你所列的目标排列顺序。哪个是你实现目标的进程中最重要的一项活动?哪件事是你做其他事情之前必须先做的?
第五步:按计划采取行动。“没有行动的信心是死的”
第六步:每天都要做一些事情。要保持你的勇气,信心和自我激励,每天必须做一些事情,拒绝让自己停下来。
第七步;永不放弃。无论遇到任何困难,都要“扛”过去。
译文:
Cherish Lofty Aspiration
Everyone has own dream. “If you never fail, what's your supreme dream?” Please step out your current status and imagine what your ideal living style, job and revenue are; where you hope to work; how you expend/get thru everyday, each week and every month; what your perfect family life is. Take out a blank paper to list all you dreamed of, and this is your dream muster. “Have you outlined your cloud-castle? Ok, action now to build groundsill.” Once you break away from your thinking bondage, your dreams can be carried out practical goals thru specific action plan. It is primary skill of being success to frame your goals and act according to the plan.
How to realize goals? There are seven steps.
1) Ascertain your wants in deed. True goal is clear, concrete, feasible and time-limited.
2) Write down your goals. There are amazing differences between brain and hands. Once your goal is written, your determination and perseverance will be enhanced and your faith be focused. Your life must be changed dramatically.
3) Pay out price. Make sure what kind of price you will pay out to achieve your aims. Work earlier in day, harder and back later though duty off? Renew your knowledge and skill and accept more training courses? Change another job or adjust own career? Principle of Cause and Effect is one of common truths in the world. Whatever you want to get, you have to cost accordingly. You must strive for what you want, pay expense and go ahead regardless that how far it is. Only going all out, you maybe reach your goals.
4) Write out detailed plan. In terms of importance, sort order of your listed goals. Which activity is the most significant? Which thing should be done prior to others?
5) Take action as plan. “It is dead if confidence without action followed up.”
6) Handle affairs each day. To keep your courage, confidence and self-inspiration, you must do some things everyday and refuse to stop.
7) Never give up. Regardless that you face any difficulty, you must insist and endure till overcoming it.