爱相随
——七夕之夜与天使泡吧 ◆胡世钢
激情之后，爱是走向更加的疯狂，还是从曲线的高峰慢慢地溶入精神的涓涓细流，这需要你用艺术的方式来构建你的生活空间，守望你的隐私，尊重对方的秘密。
你是否已将自己手机开锁的密码和业已封存的日记告诉你的男友，并已习惯于在他的面前旁若无人地打扮上妆，提胸勾带？随意大小便？。。。如果你认为这些亲昵的举动有助于加深情人之间的感情和了解，那么，你错了。因为再亲密的异性，总有彼此疲劳，而渴望属于自己的极度私密空间的时候，情人、爱人、伴侣之间并非事事需要共享。一但共享，你会发现过多地摄入自己和别人的私密空间，犹如病毒进入，不但会徒增烦恼，还会危及系统安全。所以，最美妙的爱犹如白石老人的水墨境界，妙在似与不似之间。
爱的过程，就是创造和欣赏的过程。我们在读一幅精彩的画面和欣赏一件精美雕刻时，不是越近越好，拿起放大镜在聚光灯下看，其实你什么也没看到。所以，最好的品读方式是保留一定的距离、心里距离、精神距离、物理距离。这既是审美的艺术，也是生活的艺术。
艺术即生活，这是一种品位，更是一种境界。保持一定的距离，或许更能享受两人共处的时光，并为激情保鲜。小心你过度OPEN的举动，吓坏了你的大男孩。奥兰多·布兰姆就曾经说过，当他第一次听到女友绘声绘色地描述她的隆胸手术过程的细节时，他的第一反应就是立刻冲出门去，这是一种从潜意识深处摧毁的美感，也许这烙下的阴影会伴随一生。
读巴尔扎克的《人间喜剧》总是有太多的精彩和无赖，美好的时光一瞬，无赖的记忆却拖着长长的阴影。在一个男权的社会形态下，被狙击的总是美丽的天使，翅膀的意义在于美丽与天真？或是被瞄准的目标？男人们除却征服世界，就是猎艳掘墓，所以，皇上有皇上猎场，百姓有百姓的靶场。
人生如梦，成功是一个曾经拥有的概念，而幸福是一种快乐的感觉。
咖啡馆里，一位离婚的女人在用绿证换了红证之后，要求她的前夫坦诚地告诉她一个理由，男人很精致地品了一口咖啡后说：当你由婚前那么一个干净细致的女人变成婚后顶着发卷棒穿着睡衣下楼拿报纸的妇人……其实，我们谁都不会相信这是一个可以接受背叛的理由，然而，这就是现实生活艺术的世俗性。
世俗性是艺术永恒的母题，爱是东方艺术中表现神性和世俗性的重要内容。如1986年被列入世界遗产名录的中央邦查塔普尔县卡朱拉诃镇的中世纪寺庙建筑群，这里充满了精妙的难以数计的人体雕刻，这些男男女女都沉侵在爱的欢乐中，颇称得上是印度文化情爱的葵花宝典。这些内容大致包括：妇女单人雕刻，裸体或呈情欲状；简单的夫妻雕刻；沉侵在热吻和拥抱中的双人雕刻；用普通或比较普通的姿势进行性行为的雕刻；以怪异的姿态进行性交的雕刻；人与动物的交媾等。不过，相对于印度宗教对世俗性的绝对激情表现而言，中国的民间世俗艺术和春宫画更加具有想象的特色和诗意化的空间。
爱的艺术与人类的繁衍一脉相承，性与宗教和文学艺术有着非常密切的肌肤之亲。无论是在中世纪的享乐还是处在当下的时尚男女，无论我们、你们、他们、她们。。。穿越时空，它与现实生活、文化习俗、精神意识相关链，而绝非是一个简单的民族的纵欲，这是一种热爱生命和对生命力的图腾，如同孔子所曰：“食，色，性也。”
所以，爱相随既是世俗的、也是文化的、更是艺术的。
鹤骞画室/《胡世钢艺术随想67#》2009/08/七夕
译文:
Pub Visit wih Angel at night of 26th Augest
love Alongside
——pub visit with angel at the night of 26th augest (Chinese Valentine's Day)
◆Hu Shigang
What will love become after passion? More crazy? Or gradually flat? It all depents on you. Maitaining your own life in an art way, you will keep your secret as well as your partner's privacy.
You may disclose your cell phone's code or your dairy to your boyfriend, and you may have been accutomed to make yourself up, even answer the nature's call in the front of him. In your opinion all these behaviours help deepening the understand and love between you. Nonsense. No matter how close you are, everyone needs some space for himself which can't share with lover. Once you enter the secret space, you will find you're disturbed as the entry of the virus which will endanger the safty of the system. In my opinion, the balence of love likes the painting of Sir Baishi featuring for ambiguity.
Love, as a verb, represents a process of creation and appreciation. When you are appreciating an excellent painting or dedicated sculpture with a mafnifier in the closest way, you will see nothing. It's the same story to love. Therefore, the best way is to keep some distance in mentality and physic which is the key point to appreciation as well as life.
Art is a kind of life demonstrating a level. Keeping appropriate distance between both party bring beatiful time to you and keep your passion fresh. Be care, your open behaviors scare your boyfriend. Orlando Bloom once said, when he heard his girlfriend describing the process of breast augmentation surgery in detail for the first time, he rushed out of the room and immediatlyfelt it was a disaster destroying the beauty in his mind. Maybe this experience will keep along with his life.
Comédie Humaine written by Honoré de Balzac is full of the exciting chapters as well as the disgusting paragraphs. The former is too short while the latter shadows too long. In such a patriarchy society, the beautiful angels is always the taget. What is the meaning of them? Beauty and purity? or taget to man? Man in this society trys to conque the world as well as the beauties, no matter who he is, emperor or ordinary people.
Life is like a dream in which success is a once-pocessed aim while happiness represents a joyful feeling.
In a cafe, a lady, after divorcing with her husband, required her ex-husband tell her why frankly. Her ex-husband said after a drink of coffee, it all blamed to the change of the lady from a dedicated woman to a housewomen in sleeping suit taking the newspaper downstairs. In fact, no one will accept such a excuse for divorce. It is, however, the real aspect of the life art.
Secularity dominates the theme of the art permanently of which love, representing the deity, is the significant content in eastern art. For example, Khajuraho Group of Monuments in India included in the World Heritage List in 1986. They are a serious of temple groups built in the mid of the century featuring the numerous fabulous human sculptures in the shape of the making love, which are called the sexual book in India. There are many sculptures including the couple who are kissing, making love in normal or abnormal, etc. Compared with the Indian secularity demonstrated in the form of passion, Chinese folky culture and Chungong Picture charactorized in imagination and poetic.
The art of love is inconsistant to the human being history in which sex is close to the religion, culture and art no matter when and who, maybe in the future, maybe now, maybe we or you or them. Throughout the history it, which is more than a simple national custom, relates to the real life, cultural custom and ideology meanwile it also represents the love of life. Confucius once said:" Both the food and the sex are the nature of human."
Therefore, love alongside is a kind of secularity, culture and even art.
Hewu Paiting room/《Hu Shigang's artistic thinking 67#》2009/08/Chinese Valentine's Day