1、一个人炫耀什么,说明内心缺少什么。
2、一个人越在意的地方,就是最令他自卑的地方。
3、人都有以第一印象定好坏的习惯,认为一个人好时,就会爱屋及乌,认为一个人不好时,就会全盘否认。
4、人越是得意的事情,越爱隐藏,越是痛苦的事情越爱小题大作。
5、这个世界既不是有钱人的世界,也不是有权人的世界,它是有心人的世界。
6、婚姻的杀手有时不是外遇,而是时间。
7、当你再也没有什么可以失去的时候,就是你开始得到的时候。
8、学习要加,骄傲要减,机会要乘,懒惰要除。
9、童年的无知可爱,少年的无知可笑;青年的无知可怜;中年的无知可叹,老年的无知可悲。
10、人允许一个陌生人的发迹,却不能容忍一个身边人的晋升。因为同一层次的人之间存在着对比、利益的冲突,而与陌生人不存在这方面的问题。
11、一个女人喜欢一个男人时,她希望听到谎言;当一个女人厌恶一个男人时,她希望听到真理。
12、如果你借太多的钱给一个人,你会令此人变成坏人。
13、现代的婚姻是情感的产物,更是竞争的结晶。
14、敌人变成战友多半是为了生存,战友变成敌人多半是为了金钱。
15、有所得是低级快乐,有所求是高级快乐。
16、天才失败了就是蠢才!
17、世界上1%的人是吃小亏而占大便宜,而99%的人是占小便宜吃大亏。大多数成功人士都源于那1%。
18、人如果靠吃饭活着,那饭不叫饭,叫饲料。
19、中国人学美国人容易,中国人学中国人难。
20、一个人幸运的前提,其实是他有能力改变自己。
21、人的成长要接受四个方面的教育:父母、老师、书籍,社会。有趣的是,后者似乎总是与前面三种背道而驰。
22、经营自己的长处,能使你人生增值;经营你的短处,能使你人生贬值。
23、生命犹如一片绿叶,随着时间的流逝,慢慢变的枯黄,但他的叶脉还是那么清晰可见。
24、把事情变复杂很简单,把事情变简单很复杂。
25、如果是棵小草,即使在最好的企业里,你也长不成大树。果真如此,不如历经风雨,把自己培养成名贵花卉。
26、二十一世纪工作生存法则就是:建立个人品牌,把你的名字变成钱。
27、怕爹是孝顺,怕老婆是爱情。
28、没有不合格的学生,只有不合格的家长。
29、地球是运动的,一个人不会永远处在倒霉的位置。
30、我们可以躲开大家,却躲不开一只苍蝇。生活中使我们不快乐的常是一些芝麻小事。
31、有一种人只做两件事:你成功了,他妒嫉你;你失败了,他笑话你。
32、笨男人 笨女人=结婚;笨男人 聪明女人=离婚;聪明男人 笨女人=婚外情;聪明男人 聪明女人=浪漫爱情。
33、任何一个傻瓜都会引诱一个姑娘;但是知道怎样离开她只有成熟男人才能做到。
34、人有两只眼睛,全是平行的,所以应当平等看人;人的两只耳朵是分在两边的,所以不可偏听一面之词;人虽只有一颗心,然而有左右两个心房,所以做事不但要为自己想,也要为别人想。
35、企业一定要有偷不去、买不来、拆不开、带不走,溜不掉的独特资源。
36、失言就是一不小心说了实话。
37、真诚并不意味着要指责别人的缺点,但意味着一定不恭维别人的缺点。
38、人的本性就是贪婪,但没有贪婪社会就不会进步。
39、恋爱是想一个人的心,婚姻是拴一个人的心,爱情是吞一个人的心。
40、最好的进攻就是进攻自己。
41、人生的意义不在于拿一手好牌,而在于打好一手坏牌。
42、成功是一种观念,致富是一种义务,快乐是一种权利。
43、竞争,其实就是一种友谊,在对手的帮助下提高你的聪明度,害怕竞争的人已经输给了对手。
44、钱可以帮穷人解决问题,却帮富人制造问题。
45、把爱情投资在一个人身上,冒险;把爱情投资在许多人身上,危险。
46、世界上只有想不通的人,没有走不通的路。
47、真正的财富是一种思维方式,而不是一个月收入数字。
48、一个人想平庸,阻拦者很少;一个人想出众,阻拦者很多。不少平庸者与周围人关系融洽,不少出众者与周围人关系紧张。
49、婚后的男女莫不“喜出”“望外”。
50、三流的化妆是脸上的化妆;二流的化妆是精神的化妆;一流的化妆是生命的化妆。
51、“危机”两个字,一个意味着危险,另外一个意味着机会,不要放弃任何一次努力。
52、是英雄表现出来,是人才体现出来,是蠢才显现出来。
53、“总”要为爱人着想,“经”得起爱人唠叨,“理”应对爱人谦让,男人应当“总经理”。
54、三人行,必有我师, 三剑客,必有一强, 三角恋,必有一伤
译文:
54 Classic Ideas About Human Nature
1. What one makes a show of is a sign of what he lacks in his soul.
2. What one cares about best is what he feels most inferior most about.
3. All men have the habit of judging a person by the first impression. It is a case of love me, love my dog if he leaves a good impression, but he may be denied completely if he leaves a bad one.
4. People love to hide what they are proud of more than they make a fuss over the pains.
5. This world is a world neither for the rich nor for the powerful, but one for those with aspirations and determination.
6. Sometimes it is time rather than infidelity that leads to a broken marriage.
7. When you have nothing to lose, you have something to get.
8. We should work hard, feel less proud, create more opportunities and get ride of the habit of laziness.
9. It is lovely to be ignorant in childhood, ridiculous in teens, pitiful in youth, deplorable in middle age and miserable in old age.
10. One can allow a strange person to make fortune but can't tolerate the promotion of anyone around him. That is because comparison and conflict of interest, which have nothing to do with strangers, exist only between people in the same level.
11. When a woman falls into love with a man, she hopes to hear lies; when a woman dislikes a man, she hopes to hear the truth.
12. If you lend too much money to a person, you will make an evil person out of him.
13. Modern marriage is more of the result of competitions than of the product of emotions.
14. Enemies become comrade-in-arms mostly for the sake of survival and vice verse for money.
15. It is inferior joy if one has somthing to get; it is superior joy if one has something to request.
16. A genius, once he fails, is nothing but a fool.
17. 1% of the world throw a sprat to catch a whale while 99% of them do the other way around. Most successful men come from the former.
18. If humans live on food, it is not called food but animal feed instead.
19. For Chinese, it is easy to learn from Americans, but hard to learn from themselves.
20. The prerequisite for one's luck is actually the ability to change himself.
21. One must be educated to grow in the four repects: parents, teachers, books and society. Interestingly, the last one seems always to run counter to the first three.
22. The management of your advantage makes your life appreciated; the management of your disadvantage makes your life depreciated.
23. Life is like a green leaf, which turns yellow as time goes but its vein is plainly visible.
24. It is easy to make things compliated; it is hard to make them simple again.
25. If you are a blade of grass, you can't grow into a big tree even in the best enterprise. If really, you had better cultivate yourself into famous and precious flowers through thick and thin.
26. The law of work survival in the 21st century is changing your name into money by the establishment of personal branding.
27. The fear of parents is a sign of filial piety; the fear of the wife is a sign of love.
28. There are no unqualified students but unqualified parents.
29. The earth is in motion, so one can't always be at a disadvantage.
30. We can avoid seeing others, but fail to dodge a fly. In our life it is often the trivia that makes us unhappy.
31. One kind of people does nothing but two things: he is jealous of you when you succeed; he laughs at you when you fail.
32. A foolish man marries a foolish woman. A foolish man divorces a clever woman. A clever man is unfaithful to a foolish woman. There is romantic love between a clever man and a clever woman.
33. Any fool can seduce a girl, but only mature men can know how to get rid of her.
34. Man has two paralled eyes, so they should be equal to everyone. Man has two ears in the either side, so they should not hear one-sided statement. Man has only one heart, but there are two atria aside, so they should think of others as well as themselves.
35. An enterprise must possess its peculiar resource that can't be stolen, bought, torn, taken and slipped away.
36. The tongue trip is telling the truth carelessly.
37. Honesty does not mean rebuking others' shortcomings, but does mean not flattering them.
38. Human nature is greed, without which society won't make progress.
39. Love is missing one's heart; marriage is holding one's heart; affectino is swallowing one's heart.
40. The best attack is to attact oneself.
41. The significance of life consists not in holding good cards in hand, but playing well bad ones.
42. Success is concept; accumulating wealth is obligatin; happiness is right.
43. Competition is actually a kind of friendship, which enhances your intelligence with the rival's help. Those who fear competition have lost to the rival.
44. Money can help the poor solve problems but create them for the rich.
45. It is a risk to invest love on one person but dangerous on many.
46. There are only puzzled people, but no closed road.
47. The real wealth is a way of thinking, but not a monthly salary.
48. One who wants to be ordinary has few opponents but one who longs to be outstanding have more. A lot of ordinary people get along well with those around them but the relation between the outstanding and those around becomes tense.
49. The married men or women are looking out for love affairs without exception.
50. The three-class make-up is on the face; the second-class is inside the spirit; the first-class is from the life.
51. The word "crisis" means danger on one hand and opportunity on the other. Never give up any try.
52. Heroes show themselves; geniuses embody themselves; fools disclose themselves.
53. A man should be Considerate to his wife, have Effective reactions to her chattering and be Obliged to humble to her. This is so-called CEO.
54. Among three people walking, there must be one from whom I can learn. Among three musketeers, there must be a strong one. In love triangles, there must be one who hurts.