It is inevitable for the ladies who freshly become an Office Lady to meet all kinds of social occasions in their work. If they want to strike a good impression on others, they cannot pay no attention to their grace and manners. The following are  the 8 behaviors should be avoided by all means in the social occasions:

1: avoid whispering

It is very impolite to whisper in accompanier’s ear in the full view of the public. Whispering can be regarded as the defensive action resulting from one’s distrust to the attendees. It will not only cause people’s stares on you, but also make them skeptical of your cultivation.

2: avoid laughing with the emotion out of control.

No matter how earth-shaking and interesting the story you heard is, you should keep your manners graceful at the social dinner party. You can only smile back for return at most. Otherwise, you will become a laughing stock for your ignorance.

3: avoid talking too much

If a gentleman is approaching you for chitchat, you must keep you manner natural and at ease , it is ok to response by simple words. You must avoid  reporting your lot  to others in a hurry  or inquiring your counterparts in detail. Otherwise you would scare them off and yourself will be viewed as a big mouth.

4: avoid indulging in idle gossip

A garrulous woman is surely not a social figure with good grace and cultivation. If one indulges in idle gossip and always exposes others’ privacy, she is bound to be disgusting and makes people keep her at a respectful distance.

5: avoid dampening the spirits (spoiling the fun)

People all expect to see a lovely smiling face in the social dinner party, then, a low spirit should be shunned. There must be all smiles on your face to deal with the characters and the circumstance.

6: avoid being numb and solemn

You can start your conversation with inessential words when facing a stranger. If you always sit there silent with solemn expression on the face, it will convey that you are against the pleasant atmosphere of the dinner party.

7: avoid doing whitewash in full view of the public

It is quite impolite to paint your face and rouge on the public occasion. If you need to make up your face-painting, you must go to the restroom or cosmetic room nearby.

8: avoid being too shy and uneasy

On the social occasion, if you find yourself attentively watched by someone, specially by gentlemen, you should also behave with easiness and calmness. Or if you have met him once before, you can naturally offer greetings to him. If you have never met before, it is unnecessary to be restless and shy or glare at him. You can artfully disappear from his line of sight.